Same thing happened to me with the validation. I either haven't found the right thread to read or I'm not far enough through DR to know what to do to get it back. Hopefully a vet pops in with some ideas, especially a former WAS.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014