I hate to mind read, but what I wonder sometimes, is whether the WAS gets too comfortable with the LBS and then realizes it and it freaks them out, so they step waaaayyyy back.
In the beginning, my H would soften a lot, and we would even ML, and then he would snap backwards like mad.
I know you know what to do. Act as if you are fine with it. Give her space. Don't ask any questions, don't argue about it. If she does talk to you about things, validate like mad.
Hang in there.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
