Don't know what to think

[T-boned]

Hey, Bright, Mr. Bond and Mic, thank you all for your responses! Sorry to get back so late but I've been working out of town, been busy at home getting paperwork and stuff together for another meeting with the mediator, taxes, and having fun with my friends.

Bright and Mic, yes, I think he's a bit delusional in thinking the guilt will all go away once this is done. Unfortunately, in case you didn't catch it on some of my other posts, he has been seeing an OW, divorced 5 or 6 years, about his age, with 2 girls about 13 and 10. He now has his insta-family and probably thinks he is in Nirvana. Great example this woman is providing for her 13 & 10 year old girls that it's okay to be involved with a 'married' man - oh, but honey, he is separated - I can hear her now.

But I digress.

Mr. Bond - I am doing a lot for myself. Working on my issues with the help of my therapist, going out and/or just spending time with my friends a lot having fun. I have a great group. Just went to a Jeff Bridges (the 'Dude' from the "Big Lebowski")concert. Wine tasting, running, trying to eat well - - -just live life!

I think I am in a really good place right now. Seeing H more clearly for what he is. Don't know if I would go back with him if he asked.

Just want to get through this divorce stuff. Got to protect myself at this point.

Thanks again guys for the feedback. I will check in with all of you later this week.(Sorry you're just starting this Mic . . . big hug to you!)

P.S. Saw my oncologist today - all looks good. That's the best news EVER. YAY!!!!