sorry I had started a separate thread for this, didn't mean to confuse things, still learning these boards
dxw689 - exactly, it is sad, nothing can be done. Mine has left me now too. I just keep going over it and over it in my head trying to figure it out and this was something that I think plays a role. I know it doesn't matter and I have no control and can't change any of it but didn't stop my curiosity. I just have to wait it out and see if works his way through it, anything is possible. This wasn't one of the side effects the doctor told us about .
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
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