I threw out an olive branch.

I sent a text to Smokey: "I never intended to upset you with my email. I was thinking about how it must feel from your perspective. And, I can see how I would feel frustrated if I was working hard and received anger from my kids and requests for more money. I don't know the answer. Just wanted to tell you I'm trying to understand your point of view."

I'm sure he will think I'm full of hidden agendas, maybe I am. Mainly, I just want things to continue smoothly like they have been. And, hopefully, he will soften some.

Who knows. I tried. No response.


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson