He came by tonight to get the last of his things. I was kind and helped him load and had made my dinner so I offered to share. He did eat dinner with me and left shortly after with a "see ya later". After 17 years that's all I got. lol. well I didn't really expect anything else but I did not pursue and acted as if all was ok and I was fine. You know what, I am. I didn't cry after, the first night was the hardest. Now I figure he won't contact me and I don't plan on contacting him except for the remaining bills he is supposed to pay half of. It was weird, he only talked about work and asked me how mine was. I was nice but asked no questions about where he moved to or anything personal. Giving him space. I read all my "homework" today and have a better understanding about MLC. Now I will practice being patient and GAL and see if he contacts me again. I have no choice but to let go and let God.


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs