A childhood friend of mine was a serial cheater (but since she TOLD her h when she was with OMs, it was an "open M").
Her h left her and filed for divorce. She was shocked & indignant.
HER telling me: "H just up and left me! He left me for no Fu$%ing reason!"
ME: "...well, actually I think the Fu^&$ing was THE reason..."
HER: I don't need to hear that NOW! I played with fire and I got burned!"
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016