25, just saw your post. We don't see each other at the exchange. Each Friday after school, we alternate who picks up the kids and have them for the week. It's 50/50. She helps me with this because there are a lot of debts. She makes more because of her side business. She ruined my credit rating just before leaving and now I can't consolidate debts. We decided I'd stay in the house since we can't buy our own anyway, she's renting a place. After a few months, a certain expense came I can't avoid so she's helping me.

I'll check out that movie.

My 180s have been letting her have her space. I've been catching up on the things I've held off on when we were married. I'm learning to cook very well, taking all kinds of lessons, making friends of my own, living my life. I was always available when she wanted to talk bit she doesn't really want to.

Perhaps I sound whiney. Maybe getting the lawyers involved isn't productive. I'll just live single seeing as that's how I feel right now.


Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.