Thanks for your input everyone, much appreciated. Truthfully, I don't have it in me to wait on her anymore, I really don't. I'm living my life now and I don't recognize her in it anymore.

Perhaps it seems like it only just started, but were approaching a year since the time she decided she was going to stop talking to me. It was a few months of silent treatment followed by a separation which she wanted. It hurt a lot. I'm not hurting anymore, but I'm not in love like I was once either.

I'm not acting as if anymore. I'm sad about it but I'm pretty much single again.

I'm pretty sure jerseymama is referring to her recent decision to let her WAS move on with his life and she did the same. As I recall you were seeing someone Jersey? What's been happening?

Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.