Dingo, please be careful. It takes time to get over one relationship before you're ready for a new one. I know you didn't say anything about a R, but they all start with hanging out with each other.

I bet it has been good for your ego. And yes, having a good shot to your ego can sometimes be confusing. That's how I got into an EA.

Just want what's best for you!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!