Nothing ever "just happens," remember what we say when a spouse who's having an affair says that.

Don't bring confusion into a R, it's not fair to the other person.

Otherwise, have fun! shocked

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss