Magic, Maybe the man is concerned because he knows that the behavior is not the way you would normally act and that's why he's making a big deal of the situation. Maybe he is very much aware that you drank too much and is trying to instill in your mind that your behavior went above and beyond what you would have done had you not consumed so much alcohol. Maybe it's time that you consider cutting back on the alcohol or giving it up completely. Maybe he truly cares about what happens to you and doesn't want to see you in that shape again. Maybe you need to rethink this...even though your behavior and what you said would not normally be a reflection of who you are when you are sober, it does stand out and people around you are seeing a different side of you and yes, alcohol tends to bring out those sides that we tend to keep hidden, i.e. it allows us to be more open and freer w/our behavior and comments and we don't have as much control over our behavior.
Let me just say this, he is being a friend to you because he's trying to hammer into your head that your drunken behavior was off the charts. He's trying to tell you that you were way out of line. That's what a friend does. He's trying to make you open your eyes and realize what you said and did. Yes, others do this stuff a lot....but not Magic. I would be proud to have this friend call my attention to my drunken behavior so that I would know my limits and not do it again.
Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
