My W a couple of months after BD- "I just want YOU to be happy." Classic!
And another, I've mentioned this one in my thread before but this was in MC (I was there even though I wasn't part of the exchange):
C: Do you love H? W: Yes. C: Do you respect him? W: Oh yes, very much. C: What about the sex, was he selfish about sex? W: No, I love the sex! I wouldn't mind continuing it in fact! C: So you love him, respect him, and enjoy the sex? W: Yes. C: Well in counseling we call that the makings of a great relationship! I don't understand what the issue is? W: I don't want to try.
