Does this mean the D will be final upon my signature?
No, you are just signing the "waiver of service." That way someone does not try and serve you in public (i.e. at your office). Make sure that it is the only thing you sign. In the meantime, call and find a lawyer. You need to be getting advice relevant to your state. The D process is very different depending on your location. If I were you, I would get on the phone asap and set up a consultation.
