We went to the C today. I let my W do most of the talking, and I only interjected perhaps two or three times to clarify my understanding. The thing that really stood out for me was that she asked the C several times whether in her experience, she ever saw couples where one of the spouses loses emotion to gain it back. I guess what the C said wasn't really what mattered rather it was her posing this question several times that got to me. Don't know what it means, but I'm hoping that doubt is starting to build up in her head. When we left I thanked her for coming knowing that she did something that she did not want to do, and told her that I don't want to talk about anything that was said as we rode back to the house. She then left the house to go have a cup of coffee with her best friend and came