Oh bug...I think I see the quesfion. Why hide smoking.? If that's it...I believe and have come to find thar W was living differently ahen not around me. She also spent money I didn't know about. I'm finding out this was a pattern from before I met her....so I'm not sure that I specifically did something or said something thst caused an issue. I will keep looking wifhin fo ensure thst I stay in my oen sandbox and try to better things I can about me to be a better psrtner to someone some day.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
