Another challenge for me is trying to go to them for a longer length of time. H seems to not be able to go more than about 24 hours without talking to me as well. I recently told him that I agreed we needed to be divorced and move on with our lives like he wants to. I told him it's not up to me to file for divorce, its up to him because he's the one who wanted it first. He says he doesn't have any money to get one right now. Now he is being really nice and seems to want to talk?? They seem to always try to sabotage things I thought I was the queen of sabotage. It always starts out with the kids and moves on to whatever topic. H didn't talk much about kids really before unless I brought it up. I have my work cut out for me. Its one thing to try to control yourself from contacting them but ad in H contacting you and its twice the challenge! ! Ugh
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
