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You think it's not in your control because you're not used to controlling your emotions with regard to him. That doesn't make it impossible. It's not easy but it requires taking the blame off him and letting him be however he's going to be.


Yes. You are right. This makes sense. Intellectually, now, I get it. Now the hard part - applying it.

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It's not ridiculous at all that he does that. He knows what works with you.


I need to stop allowing that to work with me.

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See any 180s you can work on?


I sure do. Thank you for this post, Ad. smile


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14