Brian, up until about 4-6 weeks ago, I think I would have taken my H back, unconditionally, if he wanted to come back.
Thank goodness he didn't come back during that time.
Now I see things more clearly, and that ship has sailed.
Do I still want things to work out with my H? Yes. I do. But I can see that won't happen without a lot of IC for him ( and continued IC for me) and MC for both of us. And that is not what he is interested in.
If he were to say, "let's cancel the whole thing" right now, there would be a lot of conditions for me to say yes.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
