I'm reading as well. In regard to S13 not coming out of his room, I can certainly emphathize with that - you are not alone. My D15 is also a recluse in her room and most attempts to entice her out on my part fail, aside from offering her dinner :-). I've talked to her about it and she gives me the "this is what teenagers do" excuse. I am not going to force her to spend time with me, but I continue to keep the door open for her to join the fam whenever possible.
