Honest question Melissa (I am 99% sure I know the answer). If your H wanted to cancel everything and get back together with you right now, would you?
One thing about this site is after you have been through this, you can read other people's sitch. You see things, because you have been through it, that they don't. A lot of the time, they see their spouse for what they really are and want nothing to do with them. Most everyone on here, if they read their own threads from start to finish, will see such a change in their views on their spouse and life in general. It's amazing how comfortable we can become in situations that aren't exactly happy. We cling to the past because the future is just so scary. As we look back at our life with our new eyes/perspective, how many people would choose to live like they did?
