She was able to let me know where she currently stands. Obviously I don't like where she currently stands but it's really not up to me. The main thing is that I didn't try to make her move from where she stands.
You have done well with DB'ing this weekend. Congratulations. By your account, nothing slipped backwards.
As for FB, it is a tool of the devil ;-) My wife recently excluded me from getting her updates. A little depressing at first, but actually it helps me maintain PMA when I'm not getting constantly poked with FB updates from her.