Julie, again see what legal advice is available to you in your area. Go to an AlAnon meeting, ask around.

I know you have difficulty getting to meetings,did you ever check out the online groups like SoberRecovery? ((( )))

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss