Melissa, you can only be on his roller coaster if you buy the ticket. Trite but true. You've said repeatedly you just want him to leave you alone and then you continue to engage.
Stop.
Read ad's posts again.
I see almost nothing that your H has written that sounds hateful. But I read it without the emotion you have attached to it. What would happen if you could let that go.
"Why did you betray my trust by hiring the most aggressive D lawyer in town to file a petition without telling me about it first?" I can say that if my H had hired the most aggressive D lawyer in town, I would probably ask or at least think, the same thing.
I would guess you'll come back with, "But, I know my H" and that's true but we keep hearing about the 2 sides of your H, how do you know read his individual text messages as being from the good H or the evil H? All the emotion and interpretation is coming from you.
Disengage. Buy a case of STFU.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
