CC, I'm glad you had a chat w/him. He now knows how you feel and that you will do everything humanly possible to protect your children and yourself.
Your chat was very honest and that's all anyone could ever ask for. Do not feel that you said anything wrong. You spoke from your heart and w/o anger. Now, the ball is in his court. I pray that he listened to what you said and will see some professional help.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
