I am interested to see what people are classifying as milestones. I know we are supposed to set goals. Is it true to say we are to wait indefinitely for the WAW to bring up R or M talk? Ex: Lets say 3 months passed and yet no D is filed, but you live in limbo (an awkward state of confusion). Is the true expectation to wait for the WAW to reach out?


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms