Sorry to hear about that. It gives a sickening feeling. I'm glad that you've reached a point in detachment that you can separate yourself from your H decisions.
Same here, a S is same as D except in the end you are S not D.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014