Wow 2ndtime...my exW said the exact same thing word for word about our friends and her sister. Within a year of both, she was doing it.
Then a month after that she says, "I want to renew our vows". Then after 10 months of therapy ends it so I asked her why she cried and said she wanted to renew vows, she responds harshly "because I just wanted to get you back for a bit to figure out what I wanted" . Wow.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.