Two months after affair revealed and 5 minutes after getting back from 3 day business trip: ExW- " I want to go to New York for a few days" Me - "with who?" ExW - "why do you have to know??" Me - "we'll, the therapist said it is important to keep me in the know and build trust. also, we are supposed to reconnect. You convinced me to work this out and try therapy. Why don't we go to NYC together?" ExW - "NO.! i want yo go on my own. Me - "with who?" ExW - "just some friends. You don't know them" Me - "but I know all your friends, don't I?" "Who are they?" ExW - "I shouldn't have to tell you! I should have my privacy"
Then, two days later in therapy as the session start, the first words: ExW - "He won't let me go to New York!".
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
