Man this [censored]. I noticed I don't get FB updates from my W anymore. She is shutting me out of everything, bit by bit. One of the issues she raised was me being on the computer and not spending enough personal time with her, and now she stays in the same room long enough to eat dinner, then hides in her office or in the bedroom. Impossible to do a 180 on that when she totally isolates herself. I spend time with the kids and stay out of my office as much as possible. All I can do is be best me for me and kids, but right now I just don't have a lot of hope. I would love to just give her a big hug and say we'll get through this, but I'm just seeing daily more resolve on her part to move on. I had hoped that maybe some of the fog would lift in a few months after contact with OM quit, but now I think she may be clinging to the dream of him leaving his W when his kids are out of high school next year, at about the same time she would have stowed away enough funds to leave. That dream could carry her a long way. A marathon for sure.
