Sorry Job. I didn't see your first reply.
So I guess we we're thinking a like.:)

As far as he being there for me. That's on and off. If we are all chatty and all is going well he seems to want to do things. But then he will cut it off and there is not always a reason for him stop communication. Sometimes I know his current job is stressful and takes a ton of his time and he kind of becomes brain dead. The H gets rest and back to chatty. However, it's just me he cuts off. Not kids or friends...and there sometimes he disappears because of some kind of issue we have with each other.
I really think he needa to know life without me!!.
I just wish I could go to an island for a month with no phone! Lol


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.