You seemed to hear a lot of "you did" statements too. I got some of these...
"You ruined my happily ever after" "You ruined what I thought I wanted." "You caused me to lose my best friend." "You embarrassed me in the town I work in and went to school." "Your mother ruined any chance of me ever having a relationship with your family again."
And maybe my favorite - W has told me twice to get an attorney and told me two or three times, "I don't have an attorney." It's not like I have a lawyer." "I mean it's not like I have been researching or looking for an attorney."
___________________________________________________________ M: 32 W: 26 M 7 months, T 4 years M: 2nd M W: 1st M No kids
living separately 1/26/14 W files D 2/24/14 D final 4/28/14