You seemed to hear a lot of "you did" statements too. I got some of these...

"You ruined my happily ever after"
"You ruined what I thought I wanted."
"You caused me to lose my best friend."
"You embarrassed me in the town I work in and went to school."
"Your mother ruined any chance of me ever having a relationship with your family again."

And maybe my favorite - W has told me twice to get an attorney and told me two or three times, "I don't have an attorney." It's not like I have a lawyer." "I mean it's not like I have been researching or looking for an attorney."


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M: 32 W: 26
M 7 months, T 4 years
M: 2nd M
W: 1st M
No kids

living separately 1/26/14
W files D 2/24/14
D final 4/28/14