Bottom of the ninth

[BklynMom]

I need to record this part of the sitch as well.

We still have a joint asset which is a Condo in Colorado that we rent out. I will give you guys the real numbers

We bought it for 250 in 06
Current offer 176
Remaining on Mortgage 189
Monthly Mortgage payment 1,010
Rent 550
Maintanence & utilities: 250/mth


I do not want to sell because basically I would need between 10 & 12 at closing to cover the difference in the sale price and our mortgage along with brokers fees and various taxes. I don't have that kind of cash.

xH thinks I should take it from a joint e trade account that we have. i consider that account a college fund for the girls.

I am willing to take the loss every month. I am the one paying the mortgage and the maintenance (I also collect the rent and deal with the tenant). I think he intent on selling pshycologically to cut all ties with me. I really dont think I am holding on to this property to "hold on" to him I just dont have that kind of cash.

It makes more sense to me to continue paying the mortgage monthly as another for of saving for my girls college. When they are 18 we can sell and hopefully pay for a few years of college.

He could also sweeten the deal for me if he wanted to and pay the brokers fee but he has yet to do that. Anyway I feel like the bad guy and like he feels like I am holding on to him.

Thanks for being here