Barry is right, you have several months to show her that she would be a fool to leave you. So get to work on your 180s and your GAL. And make sure you read Sandi's rules every day until you have committed them to memory. (And then once in a while to refresh.)
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14