thanks everyone. h is on his way over to 'talk' . I know, I have been here before. he dropped off his work paperwork showing the changes coming in his job. I guess we will discuss this and how it impacts the kids. D has already been filed( back in Oct) temp orders drafted but no movement other than that.
I will listen. validate. I do feel h will do right by us financially. I think he feels tremendous guilt. I do GAL. I recognize that I am not detached. All of my core friend group are intact marriages. My siblings have great spouses. In our society D has just become the new normal...that is what I don't like. I know my positives. I know joy and happiness. I know I did not fail at this. I have waited, been kind, been patient I will/do miss h. I trust in God
ok, wish me luck.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13