Mel, this is hard and you are on the fast track so you're not getting the luxury of time that a lot of us get to mellow out. I push and prod because it is too easy for people to feed the frenzy of outrage, sarcasm, and eye-rolling at the crazy things a was does. It is not an attractive or healthy place to be, though. You don't have to rise above it, there are plenty of people in the world who will join you in slamming your H for everything he says or does. But it would be good for you to work toward peaceful detachment as a goal, maybe with some baby steps. Just sayin.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
