You don't know that there's anything to manage, see if your D asks further questions.

LFW gave you some good advice.

I'd also text H and thank him for the heads up.

Middle of the night convos catch many of us flat-footed. I'm definitely not at my best between the hours of 1 and 4.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss