Not that I want to defend your H, but he was being honest. As co-parents, sometimes discussions are going to come up with the kids that aren't at the perfect planned out time......and you just have to go with them.
When asked, you respond honestly. "We are going through a rough time and this might be permanent. Now whatever happens between Daddy on I, we still love you both very much" Then hugs and kisses time.
As for your poll....Soft top wrangler. Convertible and SUV in one package
