So yesterday my H decided he was too angry to discuss anything with the kids.
Then he texts me this morning to inform me that my D9 had trouble sleeping last night. They had a conversation where he asked if the separate living arrangements were bothering her. D9 apparently said, "no, not all. I mean, it's not like it's permanent." My H said,
At that point I told her that it might become permanent. I did not discuss the divorce with her and she let it go at that.
OK, tell me if I am just being negative or slamming my H for no reason. But my reaction to this? Are you f-ing kidding me?????
So he tells her that it might become permanent, leaving her to wonder WTF that means. And what happens when she tells S7, and when they ask me about it?
I don't know what to do. I feel like now it's affecting the kids, so I have to do something. Should I insist that he tell them the truth?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
