Mindreading. smile

He could also buy the cards and invite friends to play, he may just be making conversation, he me be...

As long as you do that and let it go, it's pretty harmless. It's when you believe what you think to be the truth is when you get stuck.

He'll either figure out his choices are hurting him, (if in fact they are) or not.

You did the right thing, let it go.

Keep the focus on you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss