it is also worth noting that while we contributed to the death of our M's, often times, the pain that is in the WAS's life would have been there with or without our inputs. I spent a lot of time trying to figure it out. I can't anymore. I need to heal this wound and be better for me and my kids. She's hurting and I am not the sole cause of it. You are not the sole cause of your H's hurt either. Nor can you be his savior.
Blue Skies
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
