Was that really an unreasonable comment from him? How would he know what level of car payment you're looking at?

I know you're looking for the balance between being pushed around by him and standing on your own. Not everything he does is evil, some things he does are just human.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.