Hard work will get you over hills....a positive attitude will get you over mountains!

Good stuff B.....She will tell you about the day (or other things) when she wants. It is proper to ask her about her day, but not to pry about it. If you let communication flow out of each other due to a want of sharing instead of prying it out.....Communication becomes easier and a lot more substantial. Of course for the wife a lot of that depends on her trust in you.

Same with dinner....If she wants something specific, she can/will tell you. Otherwise it is cooks choice.....I hope you made some Mango Kangaroo Short Ribs. Rumor is they are excellent.

As for the text....I do the same thing. It really is just a respect for one's safety type thing.

As for our posts yesterday....check out recruit. See how he changed his normal behavior. Now you don't make those changes for a result....You change them for yourself. In recruits case you will even see the tone of his posting changed.

Time and baby steps B.....Keep an eye on the prize (and I don't mean the naked wife LOL)


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"