TL72: this is interesting; my husband also was diagnosed with low testosterone and has been taking a replacement. You could argue that that is potentially when the trouble started, but hard to nail down the timing. But I think it is a relevant issue. The sad thing, is I see nothing that can be done about the situation. He already left me. Already introduced the kids to other woman. It is surreal.

M 20 yrs
me 47
H 51
s11
d8

BD 10/8/13
H Moved out 11/30/13
OW slept over with children Dec '13
OW moved in w/H Jan '14