My W told me I was the one that wanted a D because I saw a L. There is no separstion in my state and she's drawing more credit. She can keep thst with her. She also said well you kept thinking sbout moving out....yes and engaging you to get help with me....ugh. then I just stopped sll of it snd got help for myself without her. Only to find out later she has been trashing me to our kids and their friends and saying she was miserable but stsying for the money we made. Ugh! Good luck M.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14