corrected version: Hi M. I am shocked by what she knew. She's been vomiting it out since she started talking. She feels awful. She said, I really believed you were just not a good guy and mom kept telling me stuff and venting ....now that she's gone and we are spening time I'm seeing it wasn't all your fault. I had to hide what I knew. I felt awful.
Her BF got an earful too for the past 2 years. After they were done I told them we're all done and moving forward ina positive way. W is still very short with D16. I think she may realize all the stuff she vented may come back to bite her. Not my problem. We are healing. Thanks for not judging me.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14