Oh I got that one too! "This will be best for both of us". To which my reply (before I knew about DBing) was "I don't think you should presume to know what's best for me."
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final