I think you did good with your response. I bet it wasn't easy to hold back though.

I agree that if you don't have a legal agreement you should look into that. It sounds like he may know the laws of the state. In my state, it was just passed this year that the father, or other parent, is no longer responsible for college....so it can't even be addressed in divorce papers anymore unless both parties are in agreement to it. Also here I think it's 18 or 19 they are no longer responsible to to pay support for.

You are doing very well. Don't let this throw you off too much.


M:40 H:42
M: 12yrs
BD: 2/1/13
H moved out: 2/22/13
D: 11
Divorce started 11/13