But, you now what? It's just more of the script. I keep saying this, but I am constantly amazed at how these mlcers spout the same BS.
Mine also 'decided' that once D17 turned 18 (last month), he was no longer financially responsible for her.
He also told me that I was responsible for ruining his relationship with his children. Pick me up off the floor someone please....
Where i live, there is a thing called 'adult child maintenance' that applies when kids are 18 and over but still in full-time education.
Thing is, 18yo has to file in court themselves. They are appointed a legal aid lawyer and they petition to have the recalcitrant parent pay up.
XH is going to blow his stack when he finds himself being taken to court by his own child but unless he contributes to her upkeep, she cannot continue her education.
In my experience there is ABSOLUTELY NO POINT in replying to their emails. This just plays the game they need to keep the madness going.
I've learnt that NOTHING i do or say makes an ounce of difference at this point in the process. Best just to stand back and let them fume whilst getting on with whatever a normal rational person would do.
