As to why D is necessary... H: Nothing changes unless there's a change.
'cause counseling or trying to improve the M isn't change, I guess
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
